Mission Statement: This blog was created to provide information on getting help for autism in general while focussing on locally available resources for families with newly diagnosed children in Belleville and Quinte area.

Please browse the blog at your leisure. You are welcome to comment on the posts. If you are a parent, an autism consultant, counselor, teacher with information on autism resources available in our area, please email your information to benziesangma@gmail.com. Your information will be added within 24 hours.

Local Autism Support Groups

Parents Engaging Autism Quinte (PEAQ), an autism parent support group, meets once a month on the first Tuesday of the month (no meetings in January, July and August) at Kerry's Place, 189 Victoria Avenue, Belleville at 6:30 to 8 p.m. If you have questions or suggestions for autism topics that are important to you please go to our FaceBook account and post your suggestions so that we can invite appropriate autism professionals to speak at these meetings.

Autism parent support group meeting hosted by Mental Health Agency, Trenton and Military Family Resource Centre (MFRC) is on every second Thursday of the month (from September to June) from 6 to 7:30 pm. For more info, please contact Bryanna Best, Special Needs Inclusion Coordinator at 613 392 2811 ext 2076 or email at bryanna.b@trentonmfrc.ca

For info on Community Living Prince Edward County Parent Support group, contact Resource Consultants @ 613 476 6038

Central Hastings Autism Support Group meets in Madoc at the Recreation Centre. Contact Renee O’Hara, Family Resource & Support, 613-966-7413 or Tammy Kavanagh, Family Resource & Support, 613-332-3227

Parenting your child during Covid-19 pandemic

Thursday, May 14, 2009

IBI for Parents a huge success

The Geneva Centre pesentation of IBI for Parents on May 12 at the Family Space Resource Centre in Belleville was, I daresay, a huge success. About 40 participants, consisting of parents, professionals and caregivers supporting children on the autism spectrum turned out for the whole-day program. It covered skills and strategies to try with our children on the spectrum on a daily basis. The following are few of the key messages from the presentation:
1.The cycle of ABC - A for a trigger that invokes the behaviour, B for behaviour that results and C for consequence or the reaction that follows the behaviour. The C is the key, we're told. Reward desired behaviour immediately with a reinforcement - a specially favourite toy, favourite food item or anything that increases that desired behaviour including clapping, hi-fives etc. In short, when the desired behaviour happens, have a parade. However, the reinforcement needs to happen, she cautioned, within 10 seconds or less to be effective. Keep reinforcers like special toys out of reach to encourage the child to work for it. As well, initially reinforce every single time and then fade as skills develop.
2. Time outs don't work because it feeds directly into a desired escape need of the child. It is a very abstract concept for a child on the spectrum. Instead, she said, give clear and short instructions on expectations, fully prompt the child into following through and move on to somthing else.
3. Timers can cause intense anxiety.
4. For teaching language, labelling each action, object and talk about its aspects. For example, if the subject is a car, then talk about various features of a car etc.If child makes an error, re-present the instruction and immediately prompt him to success.
5. Working one-on-one with a child on the spectrum needs to happen in an inviting, clutter-free environment with work materials ready and organized. Preferred furniture being kid-sized table and chairs (suggestion offered was : a favourite pajama, picture on the chair where the child will be seated.
So, it was all of the above and much more. The workshop certainly gave me food for thought and a set of skills to try with my child. The participants response at the end of the day was so positive that there is already a plan to try and get another such event happen again in th fall. Something to think about for all of us. It certainly was cheaper than going all the way to Toronto to participate in a similar workshop.

In it for the long haul...

I created this blog with my sincere wish that those of you reading this will want to share your own stories, both good and bad, what worked for you and what didn't and together, we can make it easier for the next family beginning their own journey of discovery. By posting what you know, where you have recieved certain services, who you have talked to, whose expertise you trust, how you navigated the school education services and by responding to questions in the discussion thread, know that you have helped a family in need. So, parents, experts in the field, counsellors, teachers and everyone who has any information on resources available, please feel free to post on this blog.